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What The Pickup Artist on VH1 Wont Tell You About Fashion 2
(continued from part 1)
There was about a couple of times that I did the
peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard
that other guys were doing it.
When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally
incongruent with my personality.
As we all know women love's fashion and they like a
well-dressed man.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something
really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best
pickups occurred.
At the same time, I'd see muscled-up guys wearing revealing
spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women
definitely did not respond well to this.
This make me think... that maybe this is not on how much
the clothes cost or how flashy they are...
Maybe there's something else aside from that.
There are two things going on. This two things must be
manage or balance.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a
woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make
her like you, you are toast.
So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of
getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a
way and put up their defenses.
You DON'T have to look like a pick up artist.
To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it
avails much.
However, you need to present yourself in the best way you
can and not to look sloppy.
This comes back to self-expression.
You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your
"scene" is, what you think is cool.
Do not change that.
Instead, improve it, with these simple tweaks.
This isn't a rocket science. Wear colors that appeal to
your skin tone and hair color. Go to an upscale men's
clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.
Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free,
and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry
about bringing you around her friends.
Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they
BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your
shoulders.
Have your legs look long and thin by wearing pants.
Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and
well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a nice
haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks great
and take it all the way.
Another thing...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look
of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
Use your intuition with this one. I don't want to say too
much because that's a whole other topic.