The Same Night Lay of the Pick-Up Artist

Let me share with you the topic about One Night Stand

It wasn't until I had a couple solid pickups that I started
to really understand how easy all this really could be.

Looking back, I realize now that those initial successes
were the start of a major "bad belief overhaul."

I began to believe that women wanted me and wants to get in
bed.

I also started to think of myself as an attractive,
desirable guy (even though I'm far from what's typically
considered good-looking).

Wanting to sleep with more women is the main goal of the 75%
of my students.

While the others have the aim to find their someone special
but I don't think these aim are mutually exclusive.

Because if you are looking for a special girl, you have meet
a lot of women so that you determine and pick the best
choice.

And if you don't know how to meet women, this can be a
daunting task.

One of the common phase that every good pickup artist goes
through when they gets started. Where he to learn to thinks
of new ways and behavior and then start to meet and sleep
with LOT OF WOMEN.

Just like a kid in a candy store, making a full advantage of
his new powers!

This period of learning is necessary, or at least it was for
me in order to snap out of my old way of thinking, and
internalize my new reality - that I am attractive and woman
want to sleep with me.

So it's important that you have a few really fast, casual
sensual encounters, in order to get the ball rolling on
forming new beliefs.

I'm talking about one-night stands, same day lays, whatever
you want to call it.

Now if you've never had a one night stand, or maybe got
lucky a couple of times when you were drunk, having a
one-night 'stands at-will' can seem just as out-of-reach as
having a great girlfriend.

Actually if you know what you are doing, it will be all
easy.

The crappy thing is, a lot of guys make it WAY too hard on
themselves, and never get those initial sexual experiences
that help them to really feel like a "natural ."

If you're going though with this newsletter, then you really
want to MASTER THE GAME aside from getting BETTER with
woman.

Mastery of the game comes from within and it start right
through your mindset and leads to a visible results that
form New Beliefs in your mind.

Your new beliefs will become the foundation in building and
facing the new reality in your life, you will then naturally
attract many women without even thinking and doing fancy
lines and routines.

There's one thing you need to know when going for a
one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest
girl in the place.

You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee
that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is
open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in
particular night.

But there are lots of horny women that are open to get
physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or
night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any
situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar
and park.

Some of the few things that you should look for are on the
way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some
make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look
beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.

The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn't
always true but is generally the case.

Another thing that you can spot that a woman is looking for
attention is when she is being so loud and animated.

Lastly, another good prospect are woman that are looking
around the room more than the other girls that she's with.
Also a group of two or three women all standing around with
blank expressions, scoping the room are another prospect.

They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for
someone to approach them.

Now when you approach, take it easy - don't go in full-steam
running your clever routines and your cocky frame control
stuff.

A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special
occasion?" is enough. It's just have to be social,  delicate
and showing that you are interested in meeting them.

You should not openly discuss to the woman that you are
looking to take her home and get her into bed. Because, if
you talk about that, you're putting a woman to a point where
is to agree to implicitly bang with you.

Rather you want to build sensual tension , as we discuss
heavily in our workshops.

The woman will force herself  to keep distance from you
because that is against her "rules". And you need a logistic
information in order to figure out how to bring her back to
your place

The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual
intention, and not trying to pick her up.

You have to be willing to let go of controlling the
situation, and just enjoy yourself, while escalating
appropriately.

Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how
it works.

You must trust that women wants to be in bed and there are a
lot of women in the club, bar or in any venue that wants to
get a same day lay.

Some won't and some will, and that is why you need to know
how to spot and get them.

You don't want to invest a bunch of time with the wrong
girl, or worse, to pick the RIGHT girl, and then mess it up
after a lengthy interaction.

It's not worth wasting your time for that.

11.6.08 04:18