How to Make Meeting Women Fun and Easy
Does it ever feel like WORK meeting women?
And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?
If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.
Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.
You see a girl you like, but she has a boyfriend.
You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.
Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.
YOU have to have the courage to approach.
At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty."
Being not "extroverted" by nature can be pretty exhausting.
... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion fatigue" from a client of mine.
I used to struggle with that too that's why I knew exactly what he meant.
Before I began to teach myself pickup , I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
I would have to sit down and rest!
Come to think how strange the situation is, I am supposed to have fun and relax but instead I am working harder than I was at my full time job.
I would go home absolutely dead
... from TALKING TO WOMEN!
Does that make any sense???
There you see the general dating fatigue. There's an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.
It is just like I am having an overtime in my full-time job!
The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).
I would push myself like professional athletes push themselves in the gym.
I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.
If you do understand any of this stuff, then probably you are working too hard in your interaction with women.
There are three reasons for this.
First, being socially proactive may be new to you.
I remember the first time I started weight lifting, I don't have an upper pectoral muscles - the muscle right at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.
Although I have but it was so small and weak and it took me three weeks to notice them. I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms every time I worked them out.
And then I reached a tipping point of sorts, where the muscle was developed enough that I could handle big amounts of weight without all the soreness and fatigue. Your mind is the same way.
Developing your new neuro-pathways will take time. So with the level of your skills, you need to push yourself harder from day-to-day.
The second reason that can cause a feeling of social fatigue is that when you think that there is too much to do or learn when meeting women.
Actually this is more on having an overwhelmed feeling and has somewhat a little different from "fatigue."
Being overwhelmed by certain thing can cause exhaustion to your mind that can lead to some sort of discouragement and depression. It's somewhat saying "ugh, I've had enough of this too much. I'm giving up"
This will hold you back from DOING ANYTHING. I suffered from this kind of feeling when I started putting a lot of my theories on paper. I looked at my notes and felt like I was looking at one of those huge, complex physics equations.
It was daunting to think that I had to DO all this stuff just to have quality women in my life.
Lastly, you will feel socially exhausted for your dating and mating game , when you spend a lot of effort and focus on stuff in wrong situation and find out it was not helpful to your pick-up.
I'd say 99 percent of guys get it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can't tell, because most guys learn to hide their inner "stuff" after a few harsh rejections.
But this doesn't deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.
As what we have seen and heard in the media, from our parents and friends - generally it lets us know that man's role is to IMPRESS the woman and in return a woman will sleep with you.
That's Silly!
I get so mad when I see some commercial with a guy bumbling around trying to impress some cute girl, and looking like a fool while she giggles like she's better than him because she's a girl.
So much for that... what I'm trying to imply here is that when it comes to the matter of controlling a date, guys are being screwed.
The matter of attraction for a guy will be change if he will only takes the time to adjust the way his mind works.
Once you get to highest level of your interaction with women, you will truly be attractive to them. You just need to be at your best both physically and emotionally.
A MAN AT HIS BEST.